Does being Honest really matter in a Relationship?

Does being Honest really matter in a Relationship?
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Today\'s Gen relationships give a damn to being honest in a relationship.But it\'s ok to keep some stuff from your partner.. but others you just need to come clean about. 

Today's Gen relationships give a damn to being honest in a relationship.But it's ok to keep some stuff from your partner.. but others you just need to come clean about.

Yes we accept no relationship can be completely a open book. Keeping a few things to yourself is common and ofcourse normal. A study has found out that more than 60 percent of coupled up people admit to having kept at least one secret from their partner.

What Is the info that you can keep under the wraps

There are plenty of people who tell their partners I love the coffee you brew for us in the morning, when really they think it tastes bitter. The things is, truths like these aren't important. Confess them never stay mum.

Solo moments which are insignificant

When your boss yells at your work, or you spent the entire day in front of the TV and you have a strong obligation to share this info with your partner, these are the individual experiences that don't involve him or her. And you're entitled to moments that are just yours. It's a myth that recounting every single moment or second of your life is the only way to have the real it close relationship.

In fact by keeping trivial details to yourself, it makes maintaining your private life much easier and more enjoyable, since you're allowed to solve your own problems and have your own indulgences.

What are the truths that you should actually confess ?

A shameful mistake from your past

Your past relationships, if you have the habit of smoking or drinking alcohol or you cheated on your college exams.

Over time harbouring such guilt can create a distance between you and your love. Without realising it, you may be arousing your partners suspicion or even pushing him it her away by changing the subject cagey whenever a mention of something that relates to your past pops up.

By telling the truth your partner may appreciate your honesty. If you are met with empathy it's a sign that you two have built up plenty of trust and intimacy.

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