Single Mothers of India - some great revelations!!

Single Mothers of India - some great revelations!!
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Single Mothers of India - some great revelations!!, She is strong, she is independent and she has what it takes to fight the battle alone - the increasing rate of divorces in India are no more factors for a womanly shame.

She is strong, she is independent and she has what it takes to fight the battle alone - the increasing rate of divorces in India are no more factors for a womanly shame. Gone are the days when women coming fresh out of marital relationships are looked down with scorn; the pattern might still be prevalent but the mind-sets of women have come way off that stigma. With equal opportunities and sharing of responsibilities, the women of the urban culture are not to be tied back with ‘I’m divorced’ baggage anymore. After calling off that prolonged ‘dance’ trying to fit in falling relationships, the single mothers are now ready to step out to reach for their comfort zone; there is no denying that the challenges are exasperating and the fears unknown, but few positive revelations of these single mothers prove that nothing will bring them down!!

“My furniture is broken, but my dignity is intact!”
True that woman with kids and limited resources has to now leave the greater lifestyle that was built ‘together’ and get into a modest one; there will be constraints in the matters of living conditions, second hand furniture and worn out beds till she finds stability. The biggest relief, however, is the fact that she has wriggled out of the emotional clutches and humiliating circumstances with her dignity still alive. This is hundred times more uplifting than sinking quietly in a bigger condo and lavish interiors.
“I have wept enough to turn over a new leaf!”
Perhaps the most crippling aspect of a break up is that dreadful complete emotional breakdown – the truth of being neglected, cheated upon, un loved – all these dawn onto her with the strike of a lightening, leaving her breathless, scared and scarred. But after those multiple outbursts with tears and self-questioning, she is now set to move on and turn a new leaf with more positive perspective towards life as an individual. The kids were never a burden, and she is determined to strive.
“Wake up to some great fresh starts!”
New plans, new dreams and newer hopes; all these get instilled inside of her the minute she is out of the spousal cling zone. There are new plans made, new hopes built and new dreams realised once she is ready to take charge as the lead. True, there are obstacles here and there managing the emotions of the children, but haven’t they seen and understood enough?
“I am the master of my Universe”
She now is under complete control where the proceedings are run looking at the best interests of herself and her young. The kids will now see her rising to a whole new level of life’s league like a warrior.
“There is love still left somewhere in the World, I think!”
The belief system over love and relationships that was once shattered begins to slowly repair from within. She sees through with her magnifying glass to seek love. She is not really desperate, neither is she on the cliff, but heck yes, she is ready to play!
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