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Golden rules for happy relationships

Golden rules for happy relationships
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Relationships are both give and take. The admiration, hatred everything is mutual. What you give is what you get. However, we often see that a few couples manage to stay happy despite their differences. Wonder how it happens? Well, there are a few ground rules. And if you can abide by them, you too can boast of a happy relationship. Let\'s take a look at a few easy to follow formulas that ensures relationships remain simple.

Relationships are both give and take. The admiration, hatred everything is mutual. What you give is what you get. However, we often see that a few couples manage to stay happy despite their differences. Wonder how it happens? Well, there are a few ground rules. And if you can abide by them, you too can boast of a happy relationship. Let's take a look at a few easy to follow formulas that ensures relationships remain simple.


Unconditional love: Set no rules to love your partner. Your relationship should not depend on any parameters. Love the person unconditionally no matter what the circumstance. Love begets love. So all you must think of is love and love only. Even a casual question asking your partner if he had his lunch goes to show how much you care.
Where there is love, there are fights: Which couple doesn't fight? Ego and attitude are the culprits which prevents a person from forgiving. Remember, you don't have to prove to the world that you won the fight against your partner, sometimes there's joy in losing and the beneficiary is you and you only. So Light Le Lo (take it easy).
Compromises are inevitable:
You may not like to hang around with his friends. But you must to make him happy. You may want to watch a movie instead of that boring match. But at times, he may want you to just be by his side so he doesn't feel lonely. So it's okay to sit with him even if means you have to forego your enjoyment. It's worth it for sure.

Sweet surprises: Your wife may be a CEO and able to afford whatever she likes. Yet she wouldn't mind if you gifted her one of her favourite dresses or a book. Women love gifts.
Your family, my family: No matter what your in-laws are like, you have no choice but to treat them well. For a man, his parents and siblings remain the same even after marriage so he would be more than happy to know that you are pally with them.
Be there when needed: Love is all about sharing and caring. It's not about dining out together or hanging out with friends, it's about being there when most needed. It could be babysitting when your wife has that important office meeting or cancelling your beauty parlour when he is sick.
Sharing household chores: There's no hard and fast rule that man takes care of the outside work while women stick to household chores.A study has shown that couples who share household chores feel more secure and stay happy. So running errands for him or her is worth it. Even making maggi for her will please her to no end!
Avoid making fun of your partner in public:
No matter how much you fight, you guys are one. So best not to make fun of your partner in front of friends or relatives. This also means they stop respecting your partner if you want to in future.
Don't take your partner for granted: He or she may accept you with all your imperfections but that doesn't mean that you can continue to take things for granted. Just because she didn't complain about your latecoming once, don't assume that she's willing to wait eternally for your arrival. Respect each other's time.
Give each other Space: Read this incident from real life
Husband in a bedroom: I feel choked, I want space...
Wife leaved the room
Husband: How dare you just walk off without even answering
Wife: C'mon. You asked for space and I gave you..now, the bedroom is all yours
No, we don't mean that kind of space. We meant giving each other a breather at times. The husband may want to catch up on a game of soccer over bottles of beer with friends while the girl wants to have an outing with her female friends. It's okay to let go of each other sometime. why be a chipku?
You are never busy for each other: No matter how busy you are, make it a point to talk to each other at least once a day. Always return calls and reply to messages. It does matter. The very fact that the person called you is a sign that he/she is thinking of you.
Don't carry your fights to bed: Always sort out any fights or misunderstandings before you hit the sack. The stress that builds up leads to nightmares and makes you sulk the next day too. Follow the same rule when you travel too. Remember you are on a vacation for a break and to be with each other.
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